Monday, November 02, 2009

The Word Will Not Return Void

After school today the children were drawing, cutting and writing in the kitchen. It was a gorgeous day outside, but they were really into their work. P & R were each making books about "gostbstrs."K was cutting pictures out of magazines of all the things she wants for Christmas. (The thinker in me worries that it is breeding consumerism and 'want,' my practical side is thankful that she is practicing her cutting, reading and sorting.)

A few minutes later she brought me a workbook she was drawing in and asked me to help her with a page. The exercise was to make a list of ten things you are grateful for. She wrote God first and then beamed at me. Then she wrote Jesus. I know I should have been touched, but there is a little too much cynic in me to ever leave well enough alone. K is quite the pleaser. Does she mean this, or does just want me to praise her?

"Why are you thankful for God and Jesus, K?"

She looked me squarely in the eye and said, "Because God made everything, then he sent Jesus to die on the cross so I can be washed clean from my sins."

I was shocked at the accuracy of her response. I worry sometimes that my kids are simply parrotting what they have been taught. Will they feel brainwashed? At what age can I start to tell if they embrace it for their own? As their mother, I am following a Biblical mandate to tell my children about God's Word.

Fix these words of mine in your hearts and minds; tie them as symbols on your hands and bind them on your foreheads. Teach them to your children, talking about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up. Deuteronomy 11:18-19 (NIV)

I am reminded of something a pastor friend of ours says, "Do you know what you can do to insure the salvation of your children?" he asks. As every well-meaning Christian parent leans forward intently he answers his own question. "Absolutely nothing."

Saving is all his idea, and all his work. All we do is trust him enough to let him do it. It's God's gift from start to finish! We don't play the major role. If we did, we'd probably go around bragging that we'd done the whole thing! No, we neither make nor save ourselves. God does both the making and saving. He creates each of us by Christ Jesus to join him in the work he does, the good work he has gotten ready for us to do, work we had better be doing. Ephesians 2:7-10 (The Message)

It is staggering, sobering and a relief all at the same time. We obey the call He has on our lives to love and serve and glorify Him--whether it be with our children, extended family, neighbors, coworkers, enemies...We bear witness to the truth of His grace, love and mercy.

Taking that truth and attaching it to hearts (big and small) is His job. How precious it is to see!

4 comments:

Immeasurably More Mama said...

Reading your blog gives me a daily dose of wisdom! It's like reading a devotional. Thank you for always sharing what God is teaching you...it's such an encouragement!

georgiamom said...

You echo my thoughts, sister! I think about this with my younger ones...I don't want them shouting "God" or "Jesus" to every question I ask them--just because it is what they think I want. But, fortunately, I have the blessing of having an older child (N). I am seeing God reveal Himself to her. She has known the truth because faithful people have taught her....but I am watching Him PROVE that those truths are REAL!! I picture it like a dot to dot puzzle...different people have supplied the dots and God makes them connect into His complete picture!

Mary Lou said...

The thought came to me as I read your post...pray for them to believe everything that is being poured into their hearts. Pray that He will become real to them as they "age". Seems like a funny choice of words. I have grown adult chilren who both made childhood professions of faith. One is a very strong Christian, the other one is weak. The Word does NOT return void, hold on to that and trust Him. Prayer is the key...you had to choose for yourself and so do they. Trust is the word for you today and prayer. don't know that this helped..just felt led to write it. Blessings on your day.

Anonymous said...

Right now I am reading a book called "Gospel Powered Parenting" by William Farley and it talks about this very thing. It's about how parents are supposed to go about "ensuring" their childrens' salvation while at the same time acknowledging that the saving is up to God. That God works thru faithful parents who teach their kids how to put Him first and foremost in their lives and then trust Him with the rest. It is really a fantastic book, very practical and wise...it's giving us much food for thought. Reinforcing us in some places and helping us to see more clearly in others. I highly recommend it!