Wednesday, December 07, 2011

Don't Give Up





I don't know who this couple is...but I simply ADORE this photo and all it represents.

My heart literally aches as a result of some very sad situations with people I love that are in the midst of crumbling marriages. It is complicated and painful--and getting out is not proving to be nearly the relief they had thought. It is hard...and there are far-reaching ripples.

I do not want to oversimplify the 'secret' to successful and long-lasting marriage. There are so many challenges when two flawed, naturally self-seeking people try to unite into one team with one goal despite their numerous differences of backgrounds, needs, communication styles, expectations...

However, I know that commitment to keep at it (especially when it is hard) is at the core of the ones who make it, as promised, "'til death do us part."

2 comments:

lydialou said...

My husband and I have been married for 45 years. We have had a lot of good times and we have had some tough times. But we stuck it out/worked out things together because we are committed to our marriage. For us it is-till death do us part. :-)

lydialou

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