Tuesday, September 15, 2009

Simplicity

I learn a lot from the journey of parenthood. In the last couple of days, I have specifically been reminded of a life lesson I hope I do not soon forget.

Don't forget the simple joys of life. I mentioned the popcorn catching R and I enjoyed during his sick day yesterday. It surprised me how much fun we had doing something so simple. I feel silly when I attempt the explain it, but we had a moment. He learned something new (and a little rebellious) and I got a chance to be a 'cool Mom' in my little boy's eyes.


Along those same lines, while driving to school one morning last week I spontaneously rolled all the windows of the car down. (My motivation was to clear out the musty smell from rain getting in my car the night before.) The children were not sure what to think. As we traveled down familiar roads in an unfamiliar way the crisp morning air blew through the car, mussing up freshly combed hair and blowing any morning grumpiness right out. The laughter and squeals were equivalent to an amusement park ride...It truly made my day. And it was free and spontaneous.

This afternoon we got caught in a torrential downpour on the way home from school. Because my garage is too full of bikes and sports equipment to actually park in, we were drenched as we attempted to get inside the house. Rather than fight it and let it make us all grumpy, we gave in and played in the rain.


Joyfully
Enthusiastically Life dealt my children an inconvenience and they found a way to revel in it.


I am a big fan of outings and constructive activities for my children...but may we never forget that the sweetest moments are often the simplest rather than the ones we manufacture.

13 comments:

Mommy P said...

Love the pictures! The kids I sit for got caught in the same downpour walking home from the bus stop~they just had to stay out and play after that. Love your blog!

Todd and Randi said...

Precious memories! We too attempted playing in the rain this afternoon only to be ended abruptly by thunder. Fortunately, we continued the playing in mommy and daddy's shower...probably something I'll regret when they start asking everyday.

Amy Beth @ Ministry So Fabulous! said...

I've said it before and I'll say it again: you are the coolest mom EVER.

Buffy said...

so true, so true! I love your blog and outlook on life. I have read for 2 years now and have recently began my own blog--I wish I had started sooner, I have three children ages 9, 6, and 4. Three is a good number:) Take Care!

Jennifer said...

ABB- Way more geek than cool here. I am just trying to learn to let go and say yes a bit more to make up for all the times I have to say no. Part of the reason they enjoy when I 'let go' is because they are so surprised by it. It feels so rebellious! :-)

Randi- The shower is an awesome back up plan. (We actually ended up getting scared by a huge thunder clash too!)

Daree said...

I ABSOLUTELY LOVE YOU!!! it actually reminds me of your miserable week at our house in Destin when the kids had no choice but to play in the rain. These pics are adorable!!!

Colored With Memories said...

so true! great perspective! kerry

k and c's mom said...

This is why I love teaching children: look at those eyes! So full of joy. (PS: those words "crisp morning air"? They made me a little envious, as we are still in the 90s in central Texas...)

alisonmomof3 said...

I hope you don't mind me asking, but what kind of camera do you use? Your pictures are beautiful!!

Jamie Ann said...

I honestly use many of the lines in your blogs as quotes. You're amazing!

Mickie McGee said...

Love the one of P & K hugging!! That will be framed and in both of their houses when they grow up!

Jennifer said...

Alison- Thanks! I use a Nikon d70s that is about 6 years old. I do everything on autofocus...the quality of the pictures is absolutely the camera, not the photographer!

Bethany said...

I absolutely love it!!!!