Tuesday, June 16, 2009

Summer Memories

This Summer my children are attending a plethora of Summer day camps: art, dance, basketball, baseball, music, VBS and cheerleading. I feel that these activities are enriching for my children--and they give us some measure of structure and excitement in our day. Most of these camps are only 2-3 hours each morning--still allowing for 10-11 hours of 'unstructured' family time. Although some Moms balk at our schedule, this works for our family.

The children are able to 'sleep in' (since that means 7am for them), ease into their morning and still make it to a 9 or 10 am start time.

Today I started thinking about how my children's Summers compare to mine growing up. Both of my parents worked, but I was blessed to live in very close proximity to several members of my Mom's family. My aunt and uncle lived next door, my great aunt and uncle lived next door to her and my grandmama and grandaddy lived behind us.

My Summer days were spent exploring--picking honeysuckles, blackberries and figs. We scarcely wore shoes all Summer, chased lightning bugs, played hide and seek at dusk. We did a lot of swimming...and watched a lot of television.

Now that my children are beyond their toddlerhood and into true childhood, I am mindful that these are the days they will remember. I want my children to experience some of the simple joys from my past. When we moved into this house two years ago, it was largely for the yard--and the room this lot gave our children to run and explore and grow up loving the outdoors the way my husband and I did. We are currently contemplating planting blackberries, blueberries and honeysuckles in our backyard...just to bring a little bit of Alabama into my children's childhood.

I am not trying to recreate my childhood, per se, but I would love a tangible way to bring some of my history into my children's young lives.

6 comments:

georgiamom said...

I know the feeling. Sometimes I buy corn just so my kids can shuck it the way I did for my grandmother. I use to cruise around my neighborhood until the street lamps turned on. I wish I could give them the same freedom--maybe in a couple of years :)I planted a blueberry bush last summer and so far we have a whopping 1 blueberry!!

k and c's mom said...

You left me thinking about some pretty sweet memories from my own childhood and things I did with my now-adult children. Thomas Wolfe was wrong: you CAN go home again..in your mind. Austin summers were all about Zilker Park, Barton Springs and the ice cream man coming down the street!

Anonymous said...

Wow...
What a summer to look forward too...
My summer were filled up the same way...
Swimming in the creek, VBS (with all of crafts, my favorite)
Camp fires.., helping Granpa put up hay..,picking wild strawberries,blackberries,etc...
Riding our bikes up and down the lane...
I could go on...But, will stop...
Have a great summer Jmom...

Love Being A Nonny said...

There is only one thing missing....a screen door banging when you let it go!!! Maybe you could put a screen door on your outside potty room (along with the other door of course). There is just something about a screen door that brings back memories!!

Jennifer said...

Nonny- You'll be pleased to know that I have TWO screen doors!!! :-)

And K&C's Mom, how could I forget the ice cream man?? We have settled for making our own a couple of times this Summer...YUMMY!

The one girl said...

I completely understand where you're coming from, and we do some importing of our favorite childhood activities into our kids lives too! You and I are the same age and did many of the same things. Fun! I LOVE SUMMER!!! (And ours is just as busy as yours this year!)